ER J.R ARYAN
Someone has beautifully remarked, “An honest man is the noblest work of God”. I, very confidently, feel & expect no body to deny that a mother is a true messenger from the heavens, a unique and unprecedented blessing of the Mother Nature and a supreme creation of the Almighty for all the living beings on the earth or elsewhere to make them truly understand through the soft motherly lulls & touches, what love & affection is all about. Right from her womb as she conceives, she bears, cares and endears us, and her affection and love proceeds and a never recedes even with an iota of difference, upto her last breath.
It is also very true that providence – the mother Nature, as it is usually called, is the supreme mother of the entire life of the universe who sent down a divine gift, our mother, to us all as Her true messenger, to propagate true affection, love & care on the earth to make us aware of feelings of a mother full of motherly affection for which no price can be fixed. It is invaluable. A mother is a Supreme Treasure of affection solace, sympathy and pleasure in a family to regulate it with care, caution and cheer; as she is the best maker and care taker of young ones from their cradle to their full youth and even after, as she never ceases to play her motherly role upto her last breath, even if her son or daughter would have reached the stage of wrinkles writ large on their faces. Teen age also known as green age of a young one, the most sensitive and tender part of life, is closely watched and taken care of by the prominent role of a mother who plays a cruciate pivotal part to mould her son or daughter at this stage or turning point; as she is a mother to do what she has been assigned to do by the Mother Nature which no one else can have the capacity to perform.
The first dose of nourishment a newly born screaming child receives from his mother is through the first breast- feeding or suckling, together with the motherly affectionate solace, caresses and touch which by and by rocks him to comfortable sleep. It is a mother who has to sail through sleepless nights Just to lull her child to fall asleep at many times and she never feels tired rather finds solace and grace to keep her baby at ease and comfort, despite her all unexpressed fatigue. A mother’s role is really supreme, praiseworthy and beggars no description.
Be it sweltering heat or freezing cold, any stress or strain, a journey in rough or plain, amidst any joy or pain, weal or woe, through thick or thin, she is always with her children and family to encourage them with all her energy, mind and healthy suggestions and other humane values to act like a pillar to sustain and maintain the family structure from buckling. It is said that a mother’s blessing or pat on the back is an enormous force to set one on the right course to achieve success and divorce access to harmful nexus. A mother’s good wish goes to extinguish all the anguish of her children and the nearest and dearest ones.
It is said if you have one child you are a parent and having two or more makes you a refree. This is very true in respect of a mother than a father, as she has always to act like a refree for any dispute or squabble, be it between the kids itself or between them and their papa. Her affectionate Cord binds them together to dismiss the quarrel. As per a folk story once a Youngman having fallen in a wrong nexus was asked to kill his mother and get her liver (Kaleja) to offer to the boss of the gang so that the yougman shall become 2″ in command. The Youngman killed his mother and was on his way towards the gang centre with his mother’s liver in hand when he suddenly stumbled and fell down with an injury causing profuse bleeding, when he, to his utmost surprise, heard his mother’s voice saying. “My dear, did you get injured? Do you have pain? Don’t worry it shall subside soon”. The voice came to be heard as if from the liver of mother having fallen aside. Even after the death the mother’s soul was there to console and share his pain & guide him. This is only mother and none other.
A mother mothers in all the weathers. Her love is all above, pure, real plain, selfless, magnanimous, unmatched, gorgeous crystal clear, concealingly radiant, serene, unspeakingly expressive, penetratingly soft and, of course, of heavenly touch. Scientific studies also reveal that there is a specific natural link between a mother and her child. A mother’s soft caress or fondle carries numerous calories of warmth & affection to her child which significantly add to his development and nourishment so much so that the baby recognized his mother under the sense of touch .A mother love full kiss , pat or caress natures the biological development of his brain and central nervous system at the same time a Child’s touch, or playful rocking activity in turn boost mother courage, stamina and adds ounces of blood to her this is really his great natural biology. It is not great wonder of the Almighty or the providence that a married girl having conceived a child to likely become a mother does develop within her breasts the most balanced diet namely milk for the baby even months before the baby is born. Is it not a blessing from the Mother Nature to the mother on earth? A mother is undoubtedly above all in showing her true affection, blessings, sympathy and solace to her off-spring for their growth, wellbeing and happiness.
In almost all species be they the Birds or mammals etc. there is a glaring manifestations of motherly affections towards their young ones which again reflects, illustrates or narrates rather defines the high & holy status of a mother & her pure love so supreme and sweet.
Our. Prophets, saints,Gurus, Darveshs all have had the “care, affection and blessings of their mothers to mould them as what they have been are what they are for the mankind to show the true path, as a gift of their mothers.
All of us be it great scientists, Leaders Pleaders, Doctors, Engineers, Architects, statesmen, warriors, Martyrs, sportsmen, space, land or sea masters or a man or woman anywhere in any capacity have had the warmth of the lap of mother with suckling and fondling and overall care from our infancy till the mother lived, for our well-being and betterment which none of us can afford to deny. Even a goon, ruffian,thief, a criminal or a militant does have a mother having brought him up from his tender age to see him happy or prosperous, and none of the above lot can dare to blame her for what they have turned to be because of the influence of the wrong channels of society which they adopted by saying good bye to the mother’s treasure of virtues and values. Even those of these who would have been deprived of mother’s love and care due to her having died during their childhood too should blame the society alone, because a mother never mothers a son to smother another mother’s son”. A mother is mother from the beginning to the end without any bend or twist in the line of her affection.
Thus a mother is a unique heavenly boon to every living being whatever he be and wherever he be, to nourish him and to cherish him, to nurture him, culture him, to roost him and to boost him, to guide him and side him towards better ideas and values so long as she survives.
In a nutshell there is none else like mother. Please worship her too, because :- A mother mothers in all the weathers. Be it hot or biting cold, be it stress or be it strain be it scorching or be it rain , be it bright or be dark, be dawn or be dusk, be it day or be it night, be it rough or be it fair, be it woe or be it cheer :- She is always there to take care of our well being and all round cheer, happiness and welfare in true sprit and full gear without any hitch or fear being though candid and sincerer so worship her- the supreme gift of God.
(The writer is retired Ex-Engineer).